Category Archives: Goal Achievement

Design Your Best Future Life: A Practical 10-Year Exercise

What might your best future life look like ten years from now?

Ten years is long enough for substantial change. You could develop new skills, change direction, create different sources of income, move somewhere new or become involved in work and activities you cannot yet imagine.

However, designing your future is not about predicting exactly what will happen. The future is uncertain, and many possible futures could emerge. The purpose of futures thinking is to explore those possibilities, decide which ones appeal to you and begin taking practical steps towards the future you would prefer.

What is a preferred future?

A preferred future is one that you would positively like to help create.

It is not a rigid prediction or an inflexible ten-year plan. Your circumstances, priorities and understanding will change. New opportunities will appear, while some plans may no longer make sense.

Your preferred future can evolve with you.

The value of creating one is that it gives you a direction. What you do today helps shape what becomes possible tomorrow.

Your future will arrive anyway

Whether you plan for it or not, the next ten years will pass.

Without any conscious direction, your future will be shaped largely by circumstances, routines and other people’s priorities. Taking time to explore what you want does not give you complete control, but it allows you to participate more deliberately in shaping what comes next.

A simple way to begin is to consider three questions:

  1. Where have I come from, and where am I now?
  2. What are the many possible futures that could emerge?
  3. Which actions can I take now to move towards my preferred future?

Understand where you are now

Before looking forward, examine your present situation.

Consider your:

  • experiences and achievements;
  • skills and knowledge;
  • relationships and responsibilities;
  • interests and sources of curiosity;
  • values and assumptions;
  • resources and constraints;
  • changing circumstances.

Your past does not determine your future, but it provides useful evidence. It can reveal recurring patterns, underused strengths and lessons that should inform your next chapter.

Explore many possible futures

There is never only one possible future.

Instead of immediately choosing a single ten-year goal, imagine several different paths your life could take. These might include:

  • a continuation of your present direction;
  • an optimistic future in which important opportunities emerge;
  • a more difficult future that requires adaptation;
  • unexpected wildcard futures;
  • an aspirational future that reflects what you most want to create.

Exploring many possible futures can loosen the grip of your present assumptions. It helps you notice possibilities that a conventional goal-setting exercise might overlook.

You do not have to commit to one complete plan. Some possibilities can be explored through small, low-risk experiments.

Describe your preferred future

Once you have considered several possibilities, describe the future you would most like to work towards.

Imagine an ordinary day in that future:

  • Where are you living?
  • What work are you doing?
  • How are you earning a living?
  • What have you learned?
  • Who is part of your life?
  • How are you spending your time?
  • What gives your life meaning and enjoyment?

Be specific enough to make the future tangible, while leaving space for discovery and change.

Work backwards from the future

The next step is to work backwards from your preferred future.

Ask:

  • What would need to be true five years from now?
  • What progress could I make during the next year?
  • What could I begin testing this month?
  • What is one useful action I could take today?

This futures-thinking method is known as backcasting. Rather than projecting the present forward, you begin with a preferred future and work backwards to identify possible steps towards it.

You can also consider obstacles, gaps and alternative routes. A useful plan does not pretend uncertainty has disappeared; it helps you prepare to respond to it.

Begin with an experiment

You do not need to redesign your entire life today.

Choose one element of your preferred future and conduct a small experiment. Take a short course, speak to someone working in an interesting field, test a business idea, visit a possible location or practise a new skill.

The result does not have to be success or failure. The purpose is to generate evidence that helps you make the next decision.

“Nothing we do can change the past, but everything we do changes the future.”
— Ashleigh Brilliant

Design Your Next Decade

Design Your Next Decade is a practical online futures-thinking guide for exploring many possible futures and shaping your next chapter.

The guide is organised into a series of pages that take you step by step through the process. The different sections include downloadable PDF exercises and worksheets that you can complete and keep.

You can work through the material at your own pace as you:

  • turn your ideas into practical actions and experiments.
  • examine where you are now;
  • explore many possible futures;
  • describe your preferred future;
  • identify obstacles and opportunities;
  • work backwards to determine possible next steps;

[Explore Design Your Next Decade on Gumroad]

Mid Year Review 2022

Time to reflect and plan

Where have the first six months of the year gone? Wow, we are now half way through the year! This is the time for a mid year review – to pause and reflect on the first half of 2022 and look ahead and plan for the next six months up to December.

World events

One of the key lessons in 2022 is the unpredictable nature of the world we live in. For example we started the year under COVID-19 restrictions here in Ireland due to the Omicron variant. To our pleasant surprise most of these restrictions were lifted on January 21st. The speed at which the restrictions, such as mask wearing, were lifted surprised many.

In February we then had the dastardly invasion of Ukraine by Putin’s Russia and all the terrible consequences that have flowed from that. Our hearts go out to the people of Ukraine who are suffering and dying at this time.

We have soaring energy prices, soaring inflation, a refugee crisis, a looming world food crisis and of course an ongoing climate crisis. There is talk of a global recession. Many parts of the world are also just coming out of the global pandemic. Not so if you live in China for example with it’s zero COVID policy where millions are in lock-down. A new virus, Monkeypox has hit the news headlines. There is a lot going on in the world at the moment!

“There are decades where nothing happens; and there are weeks where decades happen”

Vladimir Ilyich Lenin

Reflect and plan

Whatever happens in the world at the macro scale we still have to get on with living our ordinary lives at the micro scale. This is a good time of the year to step back and reflect on your key goals. Do you have one to three written goals that you are working towards right now? Have you gotten closer to achieving your key goals over the past six months? Or perhaps you have achieved what you had set out to do? If so, congratulations and well done! Or perhaps life got in the way and threw your goals off track? I think the quote below has a lot of wisdom – we need to keep making progress towards our goals no matter how small. The biggest mistake is to take no action.

“Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still”. .

Chinese Proverb

Reflection questions

Let’s take an action research approach. Action research is a Plan – Act – Reflect cycle and I have written about action research before on this website. There are three key reflection questions we need to ask ourselves:

1. What do I have to do/want to achieve in the coming six months to the end of 2022?

2. Looking back at the first 6 months of 2022 what did I do right? What am I doing wrong that needs to be fixed?

3. What new actions am I going to take over the coming days, weeks and months to take my life in the direction that I want to go?

Don’t forget that your personal review should be a regular thing. I would suggest doing this on a weekly basis. Set time aside each week for an after action review and planning. If you can make this habitual then you’re well on your way to achieving your goals.

My own reflections

For the past 6 months I have been working hard on my new course How to make and sell beeswax candles. As usual I fell foul of the planning fallacy and the course took way longer than I had anticipated. Anyway I am delighted to say that now the course is nearing completion and will launch on June 16th. Please subscribe to be notified of the course launch offer. I have included the course promo video below:

https://youtu.be/2HZSoofWXd8

I love developing and teaching online courses and I am very clear on my own ikigai (life’s purpose). If you need help with your mid year review and planning please check out my thought provoking course on goal setting. Using the course you will get clear on your life’s vision and purpose and your own inspiring goals will stem naturally from there.

Very best wishes,

Tom