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Experiment: Write a letter to you future self

Write a letter to your future self imagining that everything has gone according to plan and your life has worked out exactly as you would have wished.

Letter to future meOf course, life doesn’t always go according to plan, but research has shown that setting future goals increases well-being and optimism. Try writing a letter to your future self one year or 5 years from now and see what happens.  Of course you can also write to your future self one hour, one day or one week from now.  It’s up to you!  You are much more likely to have realised your dreams if you write them down.  You can write to your future self in your diary.  I do this all the time.  I recommend using a diary software called The Journal by DavidRM Software (see links at the bottom of the page).  I have used this software for 5 years now and really enjoy it.  I use the software to plan and also review.  I also use my journal to time travel to the past and head to the future.  You can, for example, post your letter to your future self in your diary to be discovered one year from now.  It’s always exciting to see what I was planning and doing this time last year and how much of what I had planned actually happened.  The future is the child of the present.   Many times I find that I have achieved what I had planned but it has just taken much longer than anticipated.   When I am making an entry in my diary for today I often click back over the years to see what I was thinking on this day one year, two year etc ago.  What sometimes occurs to me is that the same problems keep recurring because I have not taken action on them.  You tend to get a better sense of patterns emerging when  you build up a body of journal entries to look at.

There is also a really useful website called Future Me.  I have used this site a number of times in  the past.  What happens is that you create an account on Future Me (for free) and write a letter to your future self using their website.  The site also allows you to add a picture of yourself (or anything else) to the letter.  On the schedule day you have selected, your letter will be emailed to you automatically.  Imagine writing to yourself and then receiving an email from the past in one years time.  It’s a fun way of planning for the future and also reflecting on how far you have come (and how young you looked back then if you added a picture!).  You can write a letter to be delivered to yourself by email any time you wish – a week, a month, 6  months, a year, 5 years etc.  You decide.  Once you have an account all your letters to yourself are kept on file so you can go back at any time to view them.

Overall I find the Journal software the most useful way of writing a letter to your future self because the software can have so many other functions as well such as capturing your daily thoughts and conducting a weekly after action review.  You can of course use both options as it really is a nice surprise to receive an email from your past self.

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Weight Loss by Self Hypnosis – Results

Weight Loss Signpost Showing Fiber Exercise Fruit And Calories
I started this experiment to lose weight on April 1st.  Well I failed!

Weight at the start:  101.6kgs

Weight at end : 102.2 Kgs

I actually got a 1/2 Kg heavier!  Oops!  So what went wrong? Read on to find out more……

However – remember that there is no such thing as failure,  only feedback!  I learned a lot from this setback…..read on to find out more.

Week One – Starting April 1st.

On the scalesI had my first self – hypnosis session on April 2nd.  What struck me was how relaxing and refreshing the session was.  However one of the big challenges was to find 40 minutes of peace in the day without interruption to do the session.   You need somewhere where you will not be disturbed.  You need to be able to switch off and allow your mind to drift.

After the first session I starting to have thoughts like ‘Hunger is my friend’ pop into my head.  I was also back running although very slowly.  I was able to manage 6.5Km at a very slow jogging pace.

Easter celebrations came on Sunday 5th April and I had a few days of indulgence which did not help.

Overall however I only did 2 sessions of self-hypnosis throughout the whole month which is wholly inadequate!  I had planned to do 12-16 sessions for the month.  I found that it required conscious effort to make time for the sessions – there are so many other things to do.  When you have a spouse and children it is hard to find uninterrupted time.

On reflection this is why it is so much easier to see a professional hypnotherapist rather than self – hypnosis.  A professional will have a quiet and comfortable space where you can be guided into trance away from your busy life with all it’s distractions.

 Will Self – hypnosis work?

Yes!  However hypnosis in my experience does not work in a linear way.  For example after one of my sessions of weight loss self-hypnosis I went and pigged out on cake!  That is not supposed happen!  However I know enough to understand that this happens and if I stick with it there will come a point where everything will ‘click’.

The problem if you are new to hypnosis you may give up too soon and become discouraged.  That is why it may be better as a beginner to work with a professional hypnotherapist.  My advice is to stick with it and keep at it and the results will come.  Like everything in life we must keep at it to see the results.

 What I have learned from this failure?
  • Schedule a specific time and place to do self-hypnosis when the house is quiet and you can comfortably relax.  This requires thought as the opportunities for peace and quiet may be limited depending on your circumstances!
  • I needed to be more specific on my plans.  For example do a specific number of sessions (e.g. five sessions per week) and schedule these sessions in advance.
  • So I have experienced some failure.  However the hypnosis did not fail I failed to do the hypnosis!  The important thing now is to get back in track and do it during the month of May 2015.  Schedule the self-hypnosis sessions and do them.  No excuses!
Recommended Self Hypnosis Products

Weight LossOne supplier of hypnosis downloads which I highly recommend is Uncommon Knowledge based in the United Kingdom.  They supply quality hypnosis downloads.

They have a special programme to help you lose weight quickly and easily.  This is a 10-Download Weight Loss Hypnosis Package which has been purchased by 2,320 customers.  That is a lot of customers!   I can vouch for the quality of their material as I have a number of their downloads. Uncommon knowledge were also recommended by the school in Ireland where I was trained in hypnosis. To find out about their weight loss package please see the link below:

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